John 15:18 If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. 19 If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because it ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.
I have been very saddened by many of the online discussions I have seen recently the revolve around the topic of religion. It seems like the world we live in today is so hostile towards any religious beliefs. The prevailing worldview seems to be that we must accept any (fleeting) urge or desire of someone as part of their true character. And if we question desires or actions, we are labeled bigots and everything that we say is dismissed without question. We are told that because religions teach that certain behaviors are unacceptable (such as masturbation), these religions cause guilt and are therefore abusive. What a clever way to get people to think that they have no need of change, no reason to strive for something better. And if you don’t think that you need to change, because you think that every urge and every desire and every tendency or inclination you experience is natural and good and should be celebrated, why would you ever turn to Christ?
An important note in this discussion is that I do not in any way believe that mankind is inherently evil. On the contrary, we are all children of God. We are inherently good. But we are fallen and imperfect and there is no getting around that fact. I look at the people around me and I know that despite their flaws and despite their troubles and their imperfections they are valuable. They are people. And they are children of God– the workmanship of His hand. I love them, however imperfectly I may do so. I see goodness in their eyes and I know that we are all trying to make sense of this mortal walk.
It is my sincere belief in Jesus Christ and his word that has taught me to love all people. It has taught me that there is goodness in everyone. It has also taught me that there is a better way, a higher power, and a greater joy than the world teaches. There is a better way of being than what I now am. I need God’s grace to change, to endure, to withstand. I will never be perfect on my own. I will carry with me weaknesses and regrets and thorns in my side. I have experienced physical pain and emotional anguish and broken relationships and deflated dreams. I have felt the weight of consuming darkness. I have cried out in my pain for relief. I have experienced the despair of knowing that my greatest hopes and desires are not achievable on my own. I have questioned my future. But as I became converted unto Christ, I came to understand that there is always hope. I can be better than I am. I can change. I can repent. I can become better. I can walk a better path each day — because my Savior leads me by the hand and shows me the better way. I have hope that in 20 years from now, the bad habits I currently have will fade into memory, that I will be more charitable and loving and all of my actions, that my relationship with my husband will be stronger, that my children – despite my parenting flaws – will be contributing members of society (or getting there), that I will be more capable when it comes to financial decisions, that I will not let anxiety prevent me from participating in activities and organizations and service, that I will waste less time on meaningless things, etc. In short, I don’t want to just be who I am. I get along with myself on most occasions, but I know that I can do better. And I want to do better. And I can do better with the grace, love, mercy, and strength of my Savior.
The world may mock and ridicule and deride. The voices may increase and get louder. They may spew hatred and false ideas. The philosophies of men may try to undermine the sure foundation of the gospel. The rationalization of society may lead many away. But I have built my house upon a rock. Upon the rock, the Savior of mankind, the source of truth and light and life. I have chosen this day and each day whom I will serve.
I truly stand all amazed.
Scriptural food for thought regarding the world:
John 14:17 Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it feared him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.
John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world you shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 17:14I have given them thy word; and the world have hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 15 I pray not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil. 16 They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. 17 Sanctify them through thy truth: as I word is truth. 18 as thou hast sent me into the world, even so have I also sent them into the world. 19 And for their sakes I sanctify myself, that they also might be sanctified through the truth.
Ether 12:4Wherefore, who so believeth in God might with surety hope for a better world, yea, even a place at the right hand of God, which hope cometh of faith, maketh an anchor to the souls of men, which would make them sure and steadfast, always abounding in good works, being led to glorify God.
And don’t forget the story of the great and spacious building in 1 Nephi 8
Discussion questions: How do you live in the world, but not of the world? How do you face the discouragement of worldly voices that try to tear down your faith? How do you use the example of the Savior to help you deal with the struggles that come with our fallen world?